It’s 2010. Chances are you have made some New Year’s Resolutions. A good question to ask is, “Are you paying attention to what really matters?” To determine what matters most in your life, answer the three following questions:

1.  Name the three most memorable events in your life.
2.  Name the five most important people in your life.
3.  Name three things you wish you had more time to do.
4.  Name three people you would like to spend more time with (and include the activity where you would be together.)

Did any of these include work? If you’re like most people, probably not. Unfortunately, our society often portrays being a “workaholic” as something noble—”The market is really tough. I have to 16 hours a day if we’re going to succeed!” “We both have to work—the kids would be stuck in a lousy apartment and a lousy school if we don’t!” “My clients need me—I have to be available when they call.”

If you look back on your past, chances are pretty good that your most precious memories are not of work—they’re of times spent doing special things with those you love or times you’ve taken time for you. So the next time you’re considering missing time with loved ones to stay at work or putting off caring for yourself because work is more important, remember what matters.

Posted by Bernice Ross, author of the Best Selling Book at NAR 2008-Real Estate Dough Your Recipe for Success. For More Information on Bernice or to book her for your next event call 1-877-211-6472